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Brux's Milestones - 8 Years 4 Months 22 Days / Wed 6/24/2009 - 4 Steps To Not Spoiling Your Child
ไม่รู้เหมือนกันนะว่า ตัวเอง spoil ลูกชายรึเปล่า? ..... ลูกคนเดียว ก็คงมีบ้างเเหละ - อะไรที่ทำให้ได้ หรือหาให้ได้
.......ก็คงไม่พ้น ให้เค๊าน่ะเเหละ - สงสัยจาเข้าข่ายซะเเล้วววว
เเต่ก็พยายามสร้างกฎระเบียบภายในบ้าน เพื่อเเอบสร้างวินัยให้เค๊ากลายๆ เเละอาทิตย์นี้ก็จะงัดกลยุทธ์เกมส์
'เด็กดี ต้องมีรางวัล' มาใช้ค่ะ...... ลองหาอ่านใน blog ก่อนหน้านี้ดูละกันนะคะ
Your 8-year-old now
Many experts believe that kids become spoiled when things come too easily, encouraging them to take those things for granted. Here are some ways to avoid this:
• Let your child make the case for a privilege or new possession. This helps him understand the idea of earning through chores, effort, and good behavior, instead of getting things "just because."
• Set up a reward system for good behavior and let him earn something like a bicycle bit by bit.
• Be careful not to feed a habit for the newest thing in a series. If your child has ten stuffed animals, don't automatically purchase an eleventh because it completes a set. It will be his favorite only until number 12 comes along.
• If you haven't already started giving him an allowance – a small weekly or monthly amount of money that is your child's to spend as he pleases – consider doing it. It's a great way for him to learn how much things cost, how to budget, and the benefits of saving.
Your life now
When your child is engaged in a creative endeavor – whether it's painting, building with blocks, or scribbling with sidewalk chalk – try to celebrate the process instead of worrying about the resulting mess.
Nothing stifles the creative impulse faster than being hectored every five minutes to tidy up.
While you're at it, refrain from making critical comments about the work in progress.
It's your child's vision; there's no "right" or "wrong" even if the lines are crooked or the colors unusual.
.......ก็คงไม่พ้น ให้เค๊าน่ะเเหละ - สงสัยจาเข้าข่ายซะเเล้วววว
เเต่ก็พยายามสร้างกฎระเบียบภายในบ้าน เพื่อเเอบสร้างวินัยให้เค๊ากลายๆ เเละอาทิตย์นี้ก็จะงัดกลยุทธ์เกมส์
'เด็กดี ต้องมีรางวัล' มาใช้ค่ะ...... ลองหาอ่านใน blog ก่อนหน้านี้ดูละกันนะคะ
Your 8-year-old now
Many experts believe that kids become spoiled when things come too easily, encouraging them to take those things for granted. Here are some ways to avoid this:
• Let your child make the case for a privilege or new possession. This helps him understand the idea of earning through chores, effort, and good behavior, instead of getting things "just because."
• Set up a reward system for good behavior and let him earn something like a bicycle bit by bit.
• Be careful not to feed a habit for the newest thing in a series. If your child has ten stuffed animals, don't automatically purchase an eleventh because it completes a set. It will be his favorite only until number 12 comes along.
• If you haven't already started giving him an allowance – a small weekly or monthly amount of money that is your child's to spend as he pleases – consider doing it. It's a great way for him to learn how much things cost, how to budget, and the benefits of saving.
Your life now
When your child is engaged in a creative endeavor – whether it's painting, building with blocks, or scribbling with sidewalk chalk – try to celebrate the process instead of worrying about the resulting mess.
Nothing stifles the creative impulse faster than being hectored every five minutes to tidy up.
While you're at it, refrain from making critical comments about the work in progress.
It's your child's vision; there's no "right" or "wrong" even if the lines are crooked or the colors unusual.
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