Welcome Words for your 2 ½ - 3 Year Old

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LIMITS YOU CAN LIVE WITH

•  Hard as it is to believe when your child has a tantrum after being limited to "just one popsicle," children crave limits. While a parent’s job is to set and enforce limits, your child’s job is to test them. When you are firm and predictable, your child feels safer and more secure.
  

• Remember, you’re the grown up. Though you may feel as frustrated as your child, you have experience and resources that he doesn’t. If you yell, don’t feel guilty, but do apologize later: "I’m sorry I yelled, but I was really angry." Remind him that you love him and give him a hug.
  

• When setting limits, use eye contact, a firm tone, and positive language. Instead of saying, "Don’t play with your milk," tell him, "Milk stays in the cup."
  

• Take action. If you’ve given a warning: "If you put your hand in your milk again, I’ll take the cup away," follow through promptly. Don’t worry that he didn’t drink his milk.
  

•  If you can’t remove the source of misbehavior -- for instance, your child is climbing on a table -- remove him, and find a distraction.
  

•  Time-out is one way of removing your child from the source of conflict or misbehavior. Some parents reserve it for violent or dangerous behaviors such as hitting; others find it helps when other strategies have failed.
  

•  Limit time-out to a minute for each year of age and choose a neutral place, such as a chair or his room: "Go to the time-out chair for three minutes for throwing blocks." Set a timer he can see (or hear). When the timer goes off, let him know that "Time-out’s over," and move on to a new activity.
  

•  Natural consequences. If your child smashes his cookies, don’t automatically replace them with new cookies. Unless there’s an accident, let him suffer the consequences of crumbling his cookies. Too much sympathy can be his worst enemy.
  

•  Catch good behavior. If you find yourself frequently correcting your child, take a few minutes to think about what he’s doing right. Then, as soon as you see something you can praise, do so. Follow up with a quick hug. You'll be surprised at how quickly this brings positive results.

อ่านต่อที่นี้ค่ะ http://www.welcomebaby.org/english/Years2half-3_12-08.pdf

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[MK-MungKorn]

-When you are firm and predictable , your child feels safer and more secure ..

-Too much sympathy can be his worst enemy ..

[Mommy Dearest]

very informative. Thanks